Your child isn’t broken.
Their behavior is a signal.
Finally understand what’s underneath the meltdowns, shutdowns, and struggles — and how to support your child without shame, fear, or confusion.
What others are saying
"We finally understood what was happening for our daughter. It changed everything."
We were struggling with our 6 year olds meltdowns that were draining everybody. We felt so left behind by traditional behavioural advice and had made no improvement elsewhere. Now we understand why they were occurring and have found the best ways to help her
Max and Rhi
Parents of 3
"For the first time, I felt like someone explained my son without making me feel like a bad parent"
Every body in our lives brushed us off, told us he'd grow out of it, or blamed us as parents for his behaviour. This truly allowed me to see my daughter and understand her so we could support her best.
Laura
Mum to 2
"I felt like I was doing the right things for no result. This helped me show up better for her."
I thought we needed stricter rules. What we actually needed was safety, connection, and someone to help us see what was really happening underneath the surface. This completely changed how I respond to my child.
Grayson
Dad of 1
You’re not the only one feeling lost.
More than 1,000 parents, teachers, and professionals have used these tools to bring regulation, clarity, and connection back into their homes and classrooms.
Why We’re Lost
(and why it’s not your fault)
We were taught that behavior is something to manage — reward the good, punish the bad, control the chaos.
But what if behavior isn’t something to fix?
What if it’s the nervous system speaking — and we’ve just never been taught how to listen?
That’s why Why We’re Lost exists.
To help parents decode what’s really going on — through science, not shame.
Start Where You Are
Masterclass: Understanding Your Child’s Behaviour
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Learn why your child’s behavior isn’t the problem — and how to help
Toolkit Library
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Meltdown rescue, PMDD support, sleep, school refusal, and more
1:1 Nervous System
Map Session
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Work with Dr. Jamie to create a custom regulation plan for your child
Support Topics Parents Ask For Most
The Brain Basics of Development and Neurodiversity
Understand Your Child's Brain
and their behaviour
6 Lessons for Parents
2 Hours
Brain Based Strategies for Behavioural Concerns
Real At Home Advice for Behaviour
12 Lessons for Parents
6 Weeks
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The Tools of Success: Teaching the Neurodiverse
Neurotypical vs Neurodiversity in the Classroom
6 Lessons for Teachers
2 Hours